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The Risks of Equally Bequeathing Property to Children in Your Estate

  • Writer: Connect Cape Town
    Connect Cape Town
  • Dec 28, 2025
  • 3 min read

When planning your estate, many people assume that dividing property equally among their children is the fairest approach. At first glance, this seems straightforward and just. However, equally splitting property can lead to unexpected complications, family disputes, and financial challenges. Understanding these risks can help you make better decisions that protect your legacy and family harmony.


Eye-level view of a family home with a "For Sale" sign in the front yard

Why Equal Division of Property Seems Fair but Often Isn’t


Many parents want to treat their children equally to avoid accusations of favoritism. They believe that giving each child an equal share of a property or dividing a property into equal parts is the best way to be fair. However, property is not like cash or stocks that can be easily divided without losing value.


For example, a single-family home cannot be physically split into equal parts without destroying its value. If you leave the property equally to multiple children, they must decide whether to sell it and split the proceeds or co-own it. Both options carry risks:


  • Selling the property may force a quick sale, often below market value, especially if some heirs want to cash out while others want to keep the home.

  • Co-ownership can lead to disagreements over maintenance, use, or future sale timing, potentially resulting in legal battles.


These scenarios can create tension and lasting rifts between siblings.


Practical Problems with Equal Property Bequests


Difficulty in Dividing Property


Unlike financial assets, real estate is illiquid and indivisible. Even if the property is large, dividing it equally can be complicated by zoning laws, property boundaries, or the nature of the asset. For instance, farmland or commercial property may not be easily split without reducing its productivity or value.


Unequal Needs and Contributions of Children


Children may have different financial situations, needs, or desires regarding the inherited property. One child might want to live in the home, while another prefers to sell it. Some may have contributed to the property’s upkeep or mortgage payments during your lifetime, while others have not.


Equal division ignores these differences and can feel unfair to some heirs. This often leads to resentment and disputes that could have been avoided with a more tailored estate plan.


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Tax and Financial Implications


Dividing property equally can also create tax complications. When multiple heirs inherit property, they may face capital gains taxes if they sell later. Additionally, co-owned property can complicate property tax payments and mortgage responsibilities.


If heirs cannot agree on how to handle these costs, the property may deteriorate or be forced into a sale under unfavorable conditions.


Alternatives to Equal Property Bequests


Leaving Property to One Child with Compensation for Others


One option is to leave the property to the child most interested or capable of managing it, while compensating the other children with cash or other assets. This approach avoids co-ownership conflicts and ensures the property remains intact.


Creating a Trust


A trust can hold the property and outline clear rules for its use, sale, or income distribution. This can protect the property from disputes and provide a structured way to manage it for all beneficiaries.


Selling Property Before Death


Selling the property during your lifetime and distributing the proceeds can prevent many issues. This gives you control over the timing and conditions of the sale and allows you to divide assets more easily.


High angle view of a family meeting around a table discussing estate plans

Final Thoughts on Property Bequests


Leaving property equally to children may seem fair but often causes more problems than it solves. The indivisible nature of real estate, differing needs of heirs, and potential tax complications make equal division risky. Instead, consider alternatives like trusts, compensating some heirs differently, or selling property before passing it on.


Taking time to plan carefully and seek professional advice can protect your family relationships and ensure your estate is handled according to your wishes. Thoughtful estate planning is the best way to avoid conflicts and preserve your legacy for future generations.



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